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dear you,

happy Wednesday!  today, take a minute to remind yourself how wonderful you are. you have so many unique, amazing, beautiful things about you. it’s easy to forget those things, especially if other people try to convince you otherwise, so take a minute to remember.

think of one thing you love about yourself. one thing that’s amazing, one thing that’s beautiful, one thing that you’re proud of, one thing you wouldn’t change for the world. or if that’s too hard right now, think of one thing that you kind of like. one thing that’s alright, one thing you think isn’t so bad.

write it down. write it here, write it on your blog, write it on your bathroom mirror, write it on a notebook by your bedstand. but write it down somewhere. write it, remember it, treasure it, believe it.

love, me

PS, what do you love about yourself?

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dear you,

happy Wednesday! <3 I hope all of you have been having a good week so far. take a minute to remind yourself how wonderful you are. you have so many unique, amazing, beautiful things about you. it’s easy to forget those things, especially if other people try to convince you otherwise, so take a minute to remember.

think of one thing you love about yourself. one thing that’s amazing, one thing that’s beautiful, one thing that you’re proud of, one thing you wouldn’t change for the world. or if that’s too hard right now, think of one thing that you kind of like. one thing that’s alright, one thing you think isn’t so bad.

write it down. write it here, write it on your blog, write it on your bathroom mirror, write it on a notebook by your bedstand. but write it down somewhere. write it, remember it, treasure it, believe it.

love, me

PS, what do you love about yourself?

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dear you,

happy Saturday! think of the nicest thing someone said to you all week, and how it made you feel. who doesn’t love a kind word? so take today to go and find someone on tumblr (or in real life if you’re feeling ambitious), and find something you love about them or their blog, and tell them how amazing they are. send them a message starting with “I think you’re…” and completing the sentence with that something amazing about them.

you never know, you could save a life, dry a tear, spark a smile, or make a new friend. so go ahead, make someone’s day.

love, me

PS, I think you are incredible and amazingly beautiful.

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dear you,

happy Saturday! right now, go send someone a message in their ask box, starting with “I think you’re…” and completing the sentence with something positive about them, or their blog.

sometimes a kind message like that comes at exactly the right moment to brighten your day, or sometimes it’s just enough to get you through a rough patch, or simply makes you smile. 

how much time out of your day will it take to find one person, and say one nice thing to them?  you never know, you might save a life, be the spark of light in a dark tunnel, dry a tear, or create a smile. 

so go ahead, make someone’s day.

love, me

PS, I think you’re a beautiful, unique snowflake. <3

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dear you,

happy Wednesday!  what’s your favorite thing about yourself? what’s that one thing about yourself that you really just love, because it makes all your flaws seem to disappear when someone compliments it? can’t think of something? what? you don’t have something like that, you say? well, I respectfully say that you’re wrong. you do have something like that, because each and every one of you has something incredible, unique, amazing, special, and utterly beautiful about you.

so today, find at least one thing you love about yourself—or even something that you like a little.  it doesn’t have to be a big thing, but find something about yourself that you love, that you’re proud of. write it down. write it here, or on your blog, or on a piece of paper on your bed-stand, or on your mirror. write it, remember it, treasure it, believe it.

love, me

what do you love about yourself?

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dear you,

happy Wednesday! how’s everyone’s week? if any of you are as busy as I am (and will continue to be for the next few weeks), then I definitely encourage you to remember to take time out for yourself.  don’t get bogged down in the craziness of life and forget to take care of yourself.

so to help take care of yourself, today, remind yourself how wonderful you are. you have so many unique, amazing, beautiful things about you. it’s easy to forget those things, especially if other people try to convince you otherwise, so take a minute to remember.

think of one thing you love about yourself. one thing that’s amazing, one thing that’s beautiful, one thing that you’re proud of, one thing you wouldn’t change for the world. or if that’s too hard right now, think of one thing that you kind of like. one thing that’s alright, one thing you think isn’t so bad.

write it down. write it here, write it on your blog, write it on your bathroom mirror, write it on a notebook by your bedstand. but write it down somewhere. write it, remember it, treasure it, believe it.

love, me

PS, what do you love about yourself?

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in the United States, the average number of students in any given primary school is 446. that means that in any given primary school, an average of 44 or 45 students will drop out or switch schools because of repeated bullying.
the average number of students in any given middle school is 595. that means that in any given middle school, an average of 59 or 60 students will drop out or switch schools because of repeated bullying.
the average number of students in any given high school is 752. that means that in any given high school, an average of 75 or 76 students will drop out or switch schools because of repeated bullying.
one out of every ten.

xoxo-dearyouloveme:

in the United States, the average number of students in any given primary school is 446. that means that in any given primary school, an average of 44 or 45 students will drop out or switch schools because of repeated bullying.

the average number of students in any given middle school is 595. that means that in any given middle school, an average of 59 or 60 students will drop out or switch schools because of repeated bullying.

the average number of students in any given high school is 752. that means that in any given high school, an average of 75 or 76 students will drop out or switch schools because of repeated bullying.

one out of every ten.

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dear you,

happy Wednesday! I hope this Wednesday finds you more well-rested than I am. but I hope that if you are as busy and tired as I, that you’re still making sure to find time for yourself. do something relaxing and nice for yourself. give yourself time out from your busy day, even if you can only spare five minutes. do something special. light a candle, read a book, watch a movie, cuddle a pet, take a bubble bath. whatever you like to do. give yourself some time out of your schedule to relax and rejuvenate, otherwise you’ll burn out and won’t be as productive as you need to be. 

and while you’re doing that, take today to make sure you focus on positive things about yourself.  I bet if I asked you to think of one cruel or negative thing that someone told you, chances are you could give me an endless list.  however, if I ask you to think of one positive thing, I might get a few blank stares, or a “there’s nothing good about me.” but that isn’t true.  there’s something beautiful, unique, and special about each and every one of you.

so take today to remind yourself how amazing you are. find one thing you love about yourself. one thing that makes you incredible and unique. or even just something you kind of like. but find that one thing. write it down. write it here, or on your blog, or on a piece of paper on your bed-stand, or on your mirror. write it, remember it, treasure it, believe it.

love, me

what do you love about yourself?

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